Dogs are often called “man’s best friend” due to their unwavering loyalty and deep affection for their owners. We love to think we understand what our dogs are feeling when they greet us, but according to vet Dr. Rebecca MacMillan, your dog’s welcome home reaction reveals much more about their emotions and bond with you.
Reunion videos of dogs and their humans are incredibly popular on social media, often going viral for their emotional content. One TikTok video, for instance, has racked up over six million views, showcasing the undeniable bond between pets and their owners.
In collaboration with TrustedHousesitters, a global pet-sitting community, Dr. MacMillan has decoded the five most common dog greetings and what they reveal about your relationship. Here’s what your dog’s reaction to your return might be trying to tell you.
1. Over-the-Top Excitement
If your dog greets you with exuberant jumping, barking, running in circles, or even the occasional accidental urination, it could be a sign of pent-up energy and a strong emotional attachment. According to Dr. MacMillan, when you return home, your dog’s excitement can be overwhelming, especially if you greet them enthusiastically with a high-pitched voice and animated body language. Puppies and young dogs, in particular, are prone to accidentally urinating in response to such excitement.
How to Respond: Keep your greetings calm and low-key to help your dog learn how to stay more relaxed during future reunions.
2. Shy or Bashful Behavior
Some dogs may greet you in a shy or bashful manner, which can be interpreted as submissive behavior. This doesn’t mean they aren’t happy to see you—it’s just how they express respect for you as their leader. These dogs might cower or hesitate before approaching you, but their actions are still an expression of affection.
How to Respond: To reassure your dog, get down to their level and use a soft, soothing voice. This will help them feel more comfortable and confident in your presence.
3. Bringing You a Toy or Gift
Dogs may bring you a toy, treat, or even something they’ve found around the house as a way to engage with you immediately. This is often a request for playtime and interaction. Cats, too, might bring “presents,” such as a catch from the yard, as a sign of affection and a way of bonding.
What It Means: Bringing you a gift is their way of saying “let’s interact,” so don’t be surprised if they expect you to join in the fun!
By understanding your dog’s greeting style, you can respond in ways that reinforce your bond and help them feel safe and secure. Each greeting reflects a different aspect of your dog’s emotional connection to you, and adjusting your reactions can help foster a happier, healthier relationship.